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AWARENESS CONFIDENCE AND WELLBEING
THE WHAT
Awareness. Confidence. Well-being.
Because intimacy isn’t instinctual — it’s learned.
Intimacy isn’t automatic — it’s something we learn over time.
You wouldn’t hand a book to someone who’s never been taught to read.
The same is true for intimacy. Whether emotional or sexual, connection is a skill — one we learn by becoming curious, not critical.
Just like reading, connection is a skill. It requires exposure, practice, and space to explore. Few of us are ever truly taught how to relate — emotionally or sexually — with clarity, ease, or confidence.
At The House of Relationships, space is held for that kind of learning.
Through gentle prompts, embodied experiences, and relational reflection, ease becomes something that’s not just hoped for — but practiced.
This is not about performance or perfection. It’s about the quiet return to what’s always been possible: trust, presence, connection, ease. Where pressure fades.
“Being at ease in intimacy is a birthright.”
— Zoë Rozar
👉 Ready to explore?
You can start:
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THE WHY (...a bit more)
Emotional comfort and confidence aren’t luxuries — they’re part of what allows us to live, lead, and love fully.
In many environments — personal, professional, cultural — ease is traded for performance.
Expression becomes curated. Desire is managed. Truth is delayed.
And often, it happens so gradually, it seems normal.
Peace of mind, clarity of feeling, the ability to speak and connect without hesitation — these aren’t always built into how we’re raised or rewarded.
But they can be cultivated.
With the right space, curiosity can return. Confidence becomes natural again. Connection feels safe instead of strategic.
That’s the work I do here. Not fixing. Not perfecting.
Just making room for what was always quietly waiting to be lived. I don't only draw from my training, but lived experience of facilitating myself and others.
Because time moves. Life unfolds. And there’s no rewind, no repeat — just this moment to come home to.
You can start:
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WHO I WORK WITH
This work often draws individuals and couples who hold a great deal
responsibility, expectations, and sometimes, the weight of legacy.
Those who arrive here may include:
– Founders, leaders, and professionals navigating high-stakes roles
– Their partners quietly moving through questions of identity, intimacy, or transition
– Couples exploring whether to deepen, reconfigure, or complete their connection
– People seeking a way out of emotional confusion and into steady, embodied clarity
For some, this is the first space that doesn’t demand answers — only presence.
Whether what brings someone here is quiet curiosity or quiet overwhelm, the invitation remains the same:
A gentle place to explore what’s true, and what’s possible.
You can start:
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WHAT I HELP WITH
Real concerns. No judgment. Just process, clarity, and support.
Personal:
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“I can’t focus — this is consuming my mental space.”
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“I love my partner, but I’m drawn to others. What now?”
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“Where has my libido gone?”
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“I want sex but it hurts — what’s wrong with me?”
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“I’m ready to date again, but I don’t know how.”
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“I’m grieving. How do I start over?”
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“I have a fetish I’m ashamed of — is it possible to feel free again?”
Couples:
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“We want to stay together — but we don’t know how.”
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“We’ve stopped having sex since X event, now what?”
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“Our child is asking questions — how do we talk about intimacy confidently?”
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“We want tools, not therapy.”
HOW IT WORKS
My process is discreet, efficient, and respectful of your time.
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Share your concern via a short confidential form. or explore who I am before reaching out. Explore here.
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If you have filled in the form, I review your message and respond as soon as possible.
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We book a brief discovery call — to assess fit.
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If it feels aligned, you’re invited to schedule your first session.
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Based on your needs, we determine a pathway forward — with room to adjust.
Sessions are conducted online, with the option to integrate trusted professionals (e.g., physiotherapists, dance therapists, clinical specialists) to support your process if needed.
✅ Confidentiality is absolute. You’ll never be pushed to share beyond what feels right. You are in charge.
IF I’M NOT THE RIGHT FIT
Support only works when it fits — with the person, the moment, and the need.
If what’s being explored would be better held by someone else, that guidance is always offered with care.
Sometimes that means a trusted practitioner, more suitable to respond to the needs being expressed.
The aim is never to hold more than is right — only to honour what’s needed.
concerns i am familiar with AND HAVE SUCCESSFULLY ASSISTED
PERSONAL STATEMENTS
- I can't focus at work, I can't get this problem out of my head, please help me.
- I don't know who I am nor what I want anymore
- I love my partner but want to meet other people - how do I tell them?
- I want to keep my family and still be able to meet new people, how can I best tell this to my partner?
- Where has my libido gone?
- my erections are weakening, i have seen the doctor and there is no problem. What can I do?
- I ejaculate so fast that I am scared of being rejected by my partner
- I can't orgasm inside my partner, we want to have a child. What to do?
- I want to understand why I can't be penetrated - I want sex but nothing I do works - it's painful
-I experience painful sex, what can I do?
- I want to know if I am doing it right (sex and relationships)
- I have been divorced for a bit now and I don't know how to start dating again
- I want a relationship but I am so scared. I don't understand anything. what do I do?
- I am addicted to pornography, how to stop it?
- I am in the middle of divorce, I have just turned 40 and I really want to have fun, I don't want a relationship. Can you help me not feel shyness or shame?
- I have been sexually abused and I wish I could trust a partner. I don't want to end up alone.
- My partner just remembered of their abuse and they push me away - what can I do?
- I can't stop myself from wanting my fetish - I find feet so sexually arousing, I feel ashamed. What to do?
- My partner has PTSD, what can I do to help?
- My partner is a veteran of war, they have PTSD and I want to help my couple and my family support them. They have seen psychologists, psychiatrists and all sorts of therapists but none have been of real help. Are you able to see if you can do something?
- I am a widow and I need help to move on
COUPLE STATEMENTS
- We know about the rates of separation and divorce, we want all the tools available to always keep our relationships healthy.
- We have got to a point where we need to know if we can move forward or call it a day.
- We want to connect more deeply
- We want our children to feel confident about their sexuality and their well-being and they are uncomfortable when we talk about it.
- They are always angry and I don't know how to manage our relationship
- We have only recently become parents and we don't know how to make love anymore. When I approach my wife she rejects me and when she approaches me, its the wrong time of day.
You can start:
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About the coach
Zoë Rozar
Clinical Sexologist • Social Researcher • Ecological Planner • Cultural Educator
I understand people — not just from one lens, but from many.
🔸 Cultural Understanding
As an archaeologist with a specialization in cultural formation, transformation, and transition, I ask questions that explore the foundations of identity. This helped me recover my own — without interference, without noise. It’s how I learned to support others in reclaiming theirs.
🔸 Social Insight
With a degree in Applied Social Research (2007), I became a practitioner of social engineering through education — decoding how learned systems shape us. It gave me tools to dismantle internalized limits, and to guide others who feel trapped by inherited expectations.
🔸 Ecological Wisdom
As a certified Permaculture Design Master Planner and Teacher (since 2017), I work in planetary health and geographic medicine. Because true well-being extends beyond the body — it requires a healthy relationship with the environment that sustains us.
For me, healing meant reconnecting with the Earth that gave me life.
🔸 Emotional Clarity
I am a clinical sexologist and a current PhD candidate at the International Institute for Clinical Sexology in Miami, USA.
My doctoral research focuses on Emotional Discomforts, with a particular lens on how personal health relates to planetary health.
Our joy for life matters.
Not just for us — but for the world we embody.
